Finding Balance as a Mom and Artist
Becoming a mom has completely changed my life in the best way possible. My days look a lot different than they used to, and I’ve learned that balance doesn’t just happen; it’s something you create intentionally. It’s taken time, but I’ve found a few things that help me show up fully, both for my son and for my art.
1. Be Present and Avoid Multitasking
When I’m with Briggs, it’s all about him. I’ve learned that trying to multitask just leaves me feeling scattered and distracted. So I make a point to put my phone away completely. I even use a device called a Brick that locks my phone from distracting apps (like Instagram). Those moments with him whether it’s playing, exploring, or just being silly, deserve my full attention.
2. Make Time for Your Art
Since becoming a mom, I’ve had to be very intentional about carving out creative time. Gone are the days of endless hours in the studio, and that’s okay. Now, every moment of free time is precious. I’ve started waking up at 5 a.m. to paint before Briggs wakes up, and honestly, those quiet morning hours have become some of my favorite. Whatever works for your schedule, prioritize your creativity and block out some time for you. It’s hard to do and I always have to remind myself that the dishes and chores can wait but it’s possible!
3. Stay Flexible
Even with the best routines, life happens. School events, birthday parties, sickness, appointments, or just plain exhaustion are a part of parenthood. I’ve learned that it’s okay to let go of a planned studio session. Instead of feeling guilty, I remind myself that tomorrow is a new day. Flexibility and grace are essential parts of motherhood and creativity.
4. Make Time for Your Partner and Yourself
It’s easy to fall into the mindset of I’ll just finish this project tonight, but I’ve realized that rest and connection matter just as much as productivity. Once Briggs goes to bed, I try to use that time to reset, I clean up a bit, watch a show, and read with my husband. That downtime keeps me grounded and helps me avoid burnout, so I can wake up refreshed and ready to create again. There have been times where I’ve needed to use the evening to finish a piece for a deadline but I try to make these occasions an exception.
Being both a mom and an artist is beautifully chaotic at times, and incredibly fulfilling. Motherhood has made me more intentional, patient, and grateful for every moment. I’m so lucky to spend my days with my son and have a career that allows me to be so present during this precious time.
